About:
The name is Jay. I find it to be quite the Metro name, thank ya very much, asshole. I'm Indian,Irish,Scottish. Again, thank you very much, asshole. I love my short hair, I love my green eyes. Chances ...
Tagline:
" True friends are like butt cheeks, crap may come in between them, but they always come back together."
Bragging Rights:
To my three boys my life.They help me to stay focused. When I can see them. Thanks to my EX if she has a heart if any I need to see them. Well enough of that. When I am blessed with free time. I like reading and cooking too. Not much into television, but a great movie and someone to snuggle with is always nice. I'd rather listen to music, pool,bowling,all kinds of sports, or curl up with a good book, but that seldom happens. Kids and grandkids keep you busy. Being outside is great, going to the beach, a leisure ride down the back roads, long walks (especially in the fall), rainy days,thunderstorms, long conversations, a hand to hold, a shoulder to rest your head on. Honesty, loyalty, and genuity are extremely important to me(it has to come from your heart and of your own free will otherwise it doesn't mean a thing). Normality is important too, but I'm not so scared to venture out of my comfort zones anymore a special someone is helping me to do that and you know who you are. I love my step kids and step grandkids they are also my life to I don't know were I would be if I didn't have them in my life.I have a good judgement of character but many times fail to use it. What can I say I'm soft hearted. I'm very realistic and try to see past the negative. Sometimes I can be very stubborn and set in my ways and I'll always keep pushing whenever someone and something I believe in, care for, and love is concerned. It'll take A LOT before I'll throw in the towel and surrender. Many times I can't understand why people don't do right by each other. Loyalty seems to be far and in between anymore. People are just arrogant I guess. God gives us life; what we make of it is our creation....it is a matter of choice; and every choice we make has an end result. Excuses aren't reasons; accept responsibility when you're wrong, make it right if you can, and keep moving ahead. I'm a true believer in the sense that everyone deserves a second chance. God knows I've made my share of mistakes and bad choices and I know what its like to be on that side of the fence. Harley's are cool. Riding would be a lot of fun. I'm not too adventurous, but that is changing. I've learned through life's experiences that we're all here on borrowed time; so I try not to take anything for granted and notice and appreciate even the little things. Sometimes the little things we think insignificant, or take for granted leave the biggest impact... a hug, a kiss, a smile, watching your lover peacefully sleep, or the sound of your child's laughter,and grand kids laughter to.When and if i can see them THANKS EX. I TRY to let the important people in my life know how much they mean to me; and they mean the world. Family is first and foremost. Everything else in life comes after. We live in a material world and many people will come into and out of your life; but family is forever. Love is a BIG word and I don't use it unless I mean it. I won't deceive or hurt you on purpose. I'm older now and I've seen and experienced many things in my life. I'm sort of on a self improvement journey right now. I know that I don't need to be "loved" to love myself; as hard as that may be sometimes. Believe me there have been times; even now. I understand the difference between being lonely and being content to be alone. I also understand that being alone is sometimes the best thing. When I LOVE someone there is nothing that I won't do or at least attempt. I'm an accepting, forgiving and tolerant person; but not a fool...not anymore. I've learned to wear my heart on my sleeve and to love passionately
